Obituaries and Tributes

Jessica's obituary (written by David, with editorial assistance from Rachel and Sheryl) was published in multiple places, including the Berger Memorial Chapel site (part of Dignity Memorial), the St. Louis Post-Dispatch, the Legacy.com web site (the online version of the Post-Dispatch), and the St. Louis Jewish Light.

St.Louis Post-Dispatch and Legacy.com

St. Louis Jewish Light

Jewish Light obit
St. Louis Jewish Light

(Published on-line March 19, becaue
the J-L messed up.)

Berger Memorial Chapel

(includes condolence comments)

Tifereth Israel Congregation

Rachel's synagogue in Washington, D.C.

This was an email announcement, combining the obituary with shiva information for Rachel's Tifereth Israel (and David and Sheryl's Congregation Beth El).

Photo credit and image info: The photo of Jessica used throughout is one David shot June 15, 2008 as part of a photo shoot for Michael and Jessica's 50th wedding anniversary.
(Click triangle for technical photo details.)
This was maybe two months after David had started his journey with studio lighting. Thus, this image was shot an a Canon EOS 20D digital SLR at 1/160th sec at f/9.0, ISO 100, using two Alien Bees B800 studio strobes with a 42" umbrella camera left and a 24" softbox camera right. (You can tell from the "catchlights" in the eyes!)

Tributes

Early Music Missouri

EMMo is an period performance practice musical ensemble in St. Louis. This is the group to which Jessica donated her harpsichord when she was moving out of the house in 2022 (as described here). In addition she attended multiple concerts of theirs during her last few years, always a great pleasure for her.

About two weeks after her death, on March 17, EMMo posted a tribute to her on both their announcement email list and on their Facebook page. (The Facebook entry is the same text, with the added intro of Mourning the Loss of a Cherished Supporter.)

This was both completely unexpected and very much appreciated by all of us in the family.

Bais Abe/Gan Zissa


Jessica's very long-time synagogue dedicated their back garden to her in a ceremony in August 2025. Click on the colorful poster graphic at right to read about this in more detail.

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